Why Ms. Unapologetic The REAL REASON for the blog...

They say, well I don’t know who “they” are exactly, so I say “The true definition of a person is to never apologize for being yourself.” Too many times we say sorry for being who we are and doing what we want out of fear and judgment from others, and that’s not fair AT ALL. I decided that I’m going to live the way I want. Who’s wants to join me?

“The true definition of a person is to never apologize for being yourself.”


As a child, we are all taught the basic concept of right from wrong, and universal ethics that are supposed to be applied to our lives. We live by the rules, morals, guidelines, and values of those who surround us. My question though is “Who says your right is my wrong and vice versa?” WAIT, DO NOT walk outside of your house and start killing people on a whim, let’s not be drastic JEEZ, I’m not going to jail for you. What I am saying, however, is as we grow up we are always told “be unique, stand-out, be an individual,” unfortunately for all of us, our actions get warped and stopped by society “standards and norms.” NOT ANY MORE!

With that being said… Who is the real Ty? A question I ask myself every day.

I wrote and re-wrote this post several times because I didn’t know exactly what I wanted to say, but then I remembered this isn’t a professional site, it’s MY site, MY blog, and I can say whatever I want. BOSS! This is me, and I am not ashamed of it at all. Before I ever put my hands to the keyboard, I had to really think and evaluate the pros and cons of creating this blog. I knew that I would have to grow thick skin just for the simple fact that I would receive criticism, and negative feedback on some of the touchy subjects I plan on addressing. I also had to think about my family and the other important people who influence my life. Would they be embarrassed or ashamed of me for being so open? Obviously, I decided to start the blog. At the end of the day, I decided I am going to do what makes me happy, and the people who truly love me will be ok with it, and understand that I am an adult. The words that come out of my mouth no longer reflect the people who raised me, they reflect back on me and only me. I am my own person.

Do you want to know the real reason I created this blog? It’s because I absolutely HATE when people feel embarrassed. That sounds strange but stay with me. It doesn’t matter if you are alone or with a group of friends and family, there are certain taboo topics that everyone thinks, and talks about, but depending on the environment you filter yourself because you don’t want people thinking you are weird. However, I guarantee everything you are thinking, there are thousands of others thinking the same thing, and just like you, those people just don’t want to open their mouths. BUT THAT’S WHAT I AM HERE FOR!!  With my Type-B personality and creative thought process, my ideas spring out of thin air at random times in random places, and I never know where it will take me. I often find myself lying in bed at night making notes on my iPhone that look like a bunch of rambles. It’s not until the next morning after I wake up that I try to decipher my craziness.



Ms. Unapologetic is the woman inside of all of us who doesn’t apologize for being herself. She stands up for what she believes in and says exactly what she feels.

I am giving you fair warning now, this blog is going to get deep, and I am going to get real with some of my posts. My mouth will have no filter.


For the super sensitive, I will say this. My blog has NO intentions of offending anyone on their sexual orientation, race, gender, political views, etc. I will try to be as “politically correct” on my blog post as I can by not being gender specific, however being straight, male wording might be used. You can be gay, trans, or a unicorn, I don’t care! I love people for who they are, not who they love, and the color of their skin. If I do so happen to offend you, I APOLOGIZE in advance.

10313312_10203324397324526_8872409412586967959_nI didn’t really give you details as to who I am as a person, but that is on purpose.  The pictures do give you a glimpse. There is so much more to be said, and in due time it will be. You will find out who Ty is as I post and time goes on.  I will try to keep the posting schedule at three times a week, but don’t yell at me if it changes. THAT’S RUDE! I do have a life also, and life does get in the way sometimes. I want you to read my blog posts like you are talking to a friend, so I’m positive there will be grammar errors and run-on sentences, even though I will try to catch them, but hey I type the way I talk. GET OVER IT!








  1. This is so you Ty!! Much love. <3

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