It’s the ultimate question, what is a woman’s logic behind being seen in a bikini vs being seen in lingerie? Why are chicks so afraid to show off their bodies in lingerie, but have no problem strutting their stuff in a bikini? The answer is simple. SOCIAL EXPECTATIONS!
The meaning behind lingerie
Lingerie holds a long-time belief that it’s for intimate settings and encounters only. It’s believed that when wearing lingerie, you are opening up emotionally, being vulnerable, and acknowledging that someone else is seeing the real you. Permitting strangers to see you in lingerie is “breaking” social taboo, and social standards do not accept it. On the opposing side of the conversation, when you go out to buy a swimsuit, your intentions are to be seen by everyone. There is a different mindset involved during each shopping experience.
BUT, if I have to get technical, swimsuits and lingerie have one significant difference, the material. Swimsuits are generally made from spandex and lycra, while lingerie is usually cotton or lace. Take it from experience, lingerie when wet, is heavy and does not feel good. The experience being I had an unexpected late-night swim session with friends after a party we all attended in college. What can I say, I like to live life on the edge!
How to wear lingerie in public
How to wear lingerie in publicHere are just a few of my styling suggestions:
- Bodysuit with high waist jeans or pants
- Bodysuit with shorts and a jacket on top
- Silk dress with a jacket or blazer on top
- See through dress with bra and panty underneath
Our women’s logic isn’t crazy. There is an actual difference between lingerie and bikinis, and I feel you can wear whatever the hell you want when you want. However, it might not be that comfortable.
